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IF YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

PREPARATION - IS ESSENTIAL TO YOUR SAFETY

IF YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

Having important phone numbers nearby for you and your children. Numbers to have are the police, hotlines, friends and the local shelter.


Friends or neighbors you could tell about the abuse. Ask them to call the police if they hear angry or violent noises. If you have children, teach them how to dial 911. Make up a code word that you can use when you need help.

How to get out of your home safely. Practice ways to get out.


Safer places in your home where there are exits and no weapons. If you feel abuse is going to happen try to get your abuser to one of these safer places.


Any weapons in the house. Think about ways that you could get them out of the house.

HAVE YOU CONSIDERED LEAVING

PREPARATION - IS ESSENTIAL TO YOUR SAFETY

IF YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

Four places you could go if you leave your home. 

People who might help you if you left. Think about people who will keep a bag for you. 


Think about people who might lend you money. 


Make plans for your pets. Keeping change for phone calls or getting a cell phone. Opening a bank account or getting a credit card in your name. 



PREPARATION - IS ESSENTIAL TO YOUR SAFETY

PREPARATION - IS ESSENTIAL TO YOUR SAFETY

PREPARATION - IS ESSENTIAL TO YOUR SAFETY

ITEMS TO TAKE, IF POSSIBLE  

Children (if it is safe) 

Money  Keys to car, house, work  

Extra clothes  

Medicine  

Important papers for you and your children 

Birth certificates

 Social security cards

 School and medical records

 Bankbooks, credit cards

 Driver’s license

Car registration

 Welfare identification

Passports, green cards, work permits

 Lease/rental agreement

Mortgage payment book, unpaid bills 

Insurance papers

PPO, divorce papers, custody orders

Address book 

Pictures, jewelry, things that mean a lot to you  

Items for your children (toys, blankets, etc.).

THINK OF WAYS TO LEAVE SAFETY

THINK OF WAYS TO LEAVE SAFETY

PREPARATION - IS ESSENTIAL TO YOUR SAFETY

Try doing things that get you out of the house – taking out the trash, walking the family pet, or going to the store. 


Practice how you would leave. How you could take your children with you safely. 


There are times when taking your children with you may put all of your lives in danger. You need to protect yourself to be able to protect your children.


Putting together a bag of things you use everyday. Hide it where it is easy for you to get..

LET SOMEONE KNOW

THINK OF WAYS TO LEAVE SAFETY

LET SOMEONE KNOW

Getting a Civil Protection Order from the court. Keep a copy with you all the time. Give a copy to the police, people who take care of your children, their schools and your boss. 


Changing the locks. Consider putting in stronger doors, smoke and carbon monoxide detectors, a security system and outside lights. 

Telling friends and neighbors that your abuser no longer lives with you. Ask them to call the police if they see your abuser near your home or children. 


Telling people who take care of your children the names of people who are allowed to pick them up. If you have a Protection Order protecting your children, give their teachers and babysitters a copy of it.

BE AWARE!

THINK OF WAYS TO LEAVE SAFETY

LET SOMEONE KNOW

WARNING: Abusers try to control their victim’s lives. When abusers feel a loss of control – like when victims try to leave them – the abuse often gets worse. Take special care when you leave. Keep being careful even after you have left.



RESOURCES


https://www.thehotline.org/


https://psghelps.org/what-we-do/personal-safety-planning/

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